Tips For Honoring The Game - FastModel Sports

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How parents can contribute to a positive culture

Before the Game

Commit to Honoring the Game in action and language no matter what others may do
Tell your children before each game that you will be proud of them regardless of how well they perform

During the Game

Fill your child's "Emotional Tank" through praise and positive recognition to help them play their best
Fill your child's teammates' tanks, too
Do not instruct your child during game action or at breaks; let the coaches coach
Cheer good plays by both teams
Mention good calls by the official to other parents
If you disagree with an official’s call, Honor the Game – BE SILENT!
If other spectators yell at officials, gently remind them to Honor the Game
Don’t do anything in the heat of the moment that you will regret after the game. Ask yourself, “What do I want to model right now for my child?”
Remember to have fun and enjoy the game

After the Game

Thank the officials for doing a difficult job for little or no pay
Thank the coaches for their commitment and effort
When reviewing the game with your children, ask rather than tell. Instead of immediately sharing your opinions or telling them how they can improve, ask questions such as “What did you learn from that game?” or “What was your favorite play?” or “What was the most fun part of that game?”
Remember to give your children truthful and specific praise…not just the typical "good game." For example, "I saw how well you moved your feet on defense.”
Tell your children again that you are proud of them whether the team won or lost

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